Dear Ryan,
My boyfriend and I are in a serious relationship, but yet everytime we go out together, he always seems to be checking out the other guys at the bar and not spending enough time with me. Is there something wrong with me? What would you suggest I do to make my partner more interested in me and less interested in other guys?
Sincerely,
Hard2Get
Dear Hard2Get,
Have you ever given thought to the idea that maybe he wants to be social and isn’t always looking at other guys the way you think he might be?It is very possible that he may only be looking for friends. But be careful about assuming what he is looking for. You may end up only making things worse. Is there something wrong with you? more than likely. There is always something wrong with all of us. We all have flaws and no one seems to know just what they are. It could be something as simple as you not spending time with him after he comes home from a hard day of work. There is an endless slough of possiblities. Have you tried a three way? perhaps that is something that he may want in your relationship to spice things up a bit. Try doing something romatic to get him to pay more attention to your need. Try a romantic candlelight dinner and surprise him when he comes home to you cooking naked. That has always seemed to work for me. Keep your Chin Up! There are many things wrong with the way we think. So long as you love him, just show him that love and everything will be fine.
RYAN HAZY
