Power of Pride

Every year I love to remember the reason for the pride celebrations. So let’s remember where the big event started, the Stonewall Riots of 1969.

Very few establishments welcomed openly gay people in the 1950s and 1960s. Those that did were often bars, although bar owners and managers were rarely gay. The Stonewall Inn, at the time, was owned by the Mafia. It catered to an assortment of patrons, but it was known to be popular with the poorest and most marginalized people in the gay community: drag queens, representatives of a newly self-aware transgender community, effeminate young men, hustlers, and homeless youth. Police raids on gay bars were routine in the 1960s, but officers quickly lost control of the situation at the Stonewall Inn, and attracted a crowd that was incited to riot. Tensions between New York City police and gay residents of Greenwich Village erupted into more protests the next evening, and again several nights later. Within weeks, Village residents quickly organized into activist groups to concentrate efforts on establishing places for gays and lesbians to be open about their sexual orientation without fear of being arrested. So let’s remember our forefathers in Pride.  This year as we go out into the pride parade in all our glamour and glitter let’s remember the original drag queens that started it all.

What is Pride to me?

Pride is the ability to look at myself and say yes, I’m proud of who I am and how I treat others. A friend of mine recently sent me a quote from one of my heroes It’s my quote for pride this year: “Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim.”

Accept no one’s definition of your life: “Define yourself.” Harvey Fierstein

Oh by the way, one of the fearless drag queens that started it all? Sylvia Rivera (Great name.)

Happy Pride Everyone!

Love Sylvia O’Stayformore